Your Anger Isn't the Problem. Stuffing It Is.

Most people arrive at this work carrying a version of the same apology.

"I know I need to forgive them."

"I know I shouldn't feel this way."

“I know it’s not a big deal.”

The anger is already in the room, and the first thing they do is apologize for it.

That apology is worth paying attention to.

Because somewhere along the way, you learned that anger was the problem, that it was dangerous, or shameful, or a sign that something was wrong with you.

It isn't.

And that belief is costing you more than you know.