You’re Not Too Emotional.

In self-improvement circles, there's a strong emphasis on feeling your feelings, and this is generally excellent advice.

The problem is how it tends to get interpreted.

Many people hear "feel your feelings" and translate it into: sit with this, stay with this, honor this, process this. Which turns into: hold this, carry this, make sure you've fully experienced every dimension of this before you move on.

But emotions aren't meant to be permanent. They're meant to be information.