Let Yourself Be Cared For

The thing that got you here often can't take you further, and it usually can't hold what you've already built. In business, past a certain point, the whole game becomes other people, from partners you have to trust, a team you have to actually rely on, and collaborators whose work you can't quietly redo at midnight. In your personal life, the people who love you, your partner, your friends, your kids, your parents, can only get so close to someone who won't be helped. Care that isn't allowed in has nowhere to land, and over time, the people around you learn to stop offering.

What makes this so hard to change is that self-reliance doesn't feel like a wound. It feels like competence.