Over the next few months, I'm releasing a 12-session series designed to dismantle these patterns at the subconscious level.

We'll rewire:

• Self-erasure for safety (shrinking, staying too long, fearing retaliation)

• Externalized authority (needing validation from outside)

• Distorted relational gravity (being drawn to withholding, dominant people)

• Chronic vigilance (hyper-perfectionism, over-responsibility, inability to rest)

Understanding the Pattern Isn't Enough

Your conscious mind gets it. You've analyzed the pattern. You've talked about it in therapy.

But the part of you that's actually running the self-sabotage? That part lives in your subconscious.

And your subconscious doesn't respond to insight. It responds to pattern interruption.